I'm trying to stick with the habit of updating this daily, but with my schedule it is almost impossible! Tonight I got home at about 21:00 SAST after we (Rotary and Rotaract) had met with Child Welfare to discuss the 90th Anniversary Gala Dinner that we're planning. Afterwards we had opportunity to talk with Rotarians over dinner and the outcome of that, I think, was quite positive. I was referred to a Rotary-funded project / scholarship for post-graduate studies in the United States in Peace and Conflict Studies, so it is something that I'll have a look at!
Tuesday evening we came home at about 21:00 as well, Steven and I (as student representatives) had a leadership training evening at the University, followed by soup and 'networking'. And last nigh we had the bi-weekly family dinner, which was at Steven's grandmother's house (as it alternates between our house, Steven's brother's house or his grandmother's house). It is usually a fun evening in which we just catch up with the going-ons in the family and so forth.
Tomorrow evening, thank God, will be the first evening we're home! But tomorrow is also a busy day for me, as I am on campus from 8:30 - 16:30! On a Friday, yes! I have no life! haha
I last ended with a reflection of Wednesday, 9 July but failed to discuss the magnificent dinner we had at Drs Semakaleng and Robert Mazur's house, so let me get straight to that.
I think the evening at the Mazur's house as part of the Africa Forum Dinner was one of the highlights of the week and something I was looking forward to. As I was constantly at pains to explain to the Americans I came across, South Africans are very social and outgoing people (at least within a select group, if that makes sense). So socialising, or what we call kuiering (there's no English word fit to describe all its majesty! Sorry! hehe), forms a big part of our social interaction, and even, daily lives. It was therefore something to look forward to, the opportunity to meet a few American South Africans!
But before I get into that, I must post a photo of Shadow - one of our cats at the Symons's Residence. He'll never forgive me if I don't...
Well, first of all, I was very happy to further meet fellow South Africans (after having met Dr Sipho Ndlela earlier that day) and I think it was a very heartwarming experience to be welcomed into the house of someone that can relate much better to your own culture and the context, the milieu, in which you grew up and continue to live. Of course I can imagine that we grew up in very different times, and had to face very different political realities, but over-all we all know what we talk about when we say words such as braai, creme soda, and of course, biltong.
As one can expect, the food was amazing! the company was really good (as Alastair remarked, he'd been convinced that everyone in Ames walks around carrying a PhD in their pocket!) and the atmosphere and ambience was not only friendly, but strangely and amazingly familiar. So much so that when the evening was over, we had "bonded" so much that I (and my fellow youth ambassadors) couldn't resist, couldn't help ourselves, and had to give Drs Leah and Semakaleng hugs! Big, real, true South African (as Joey calls them, I think) bear hugs! We were with family, and it felt good!
I was surprised, however, by how quickly dinner (in my opinion) was served! It was kind of awkward, for me initially, to walk in and wait a few minutes and have dinner served! It was very unlike what or how we do it in South Africa - yet again, in my experience and in the social sphere I operate in. Usually we'll have a very long time to socialise and drink, chatting and waiting even hours for dinner to be ready. I must admit, and I have observed, that alcohol is not that much of a regular in American dining and socialising... as I was constantly remarking, alcohol in South Africa is quite readily available and almost always present at any event where people are getting together. We'll get to the legal drinking age in a minute!

Mandisa, Kauther, Dr Ndlela's friend and Phumlani's back-head!




Mandisa and Dr Semakaleng Lebepe-Mazur


Dr Barbara Woods, one of my favourite people at the event, and great company! Having shared her insights in American social life, social organisation and politics! And also a "view from the South."

I was absolutely drawn into the discussion with Dr Woods, besides looking rather upset here! I'm not preparing a rebuttal, really!
Dinner then, as I am sure you can imagine (and as those who were there will tell you, I hope) was amazing and it was really an experience to share in the house and home of fellow South Africans. Better yet, however, was the interaction among people who know Africa, who share a passion for and tie to the continent and it was an experience in which I gained a lot of insight and information.
I think the highlight of it all (besides Semakaleng's good food that was so very un-American, and thank goodness for that!), was the opportunity each and everyone of us had to share our experiences with "the other side." We spoke about our experience in and feelings toward the United States, and the non-Africans did the same about our continent, and where applicable, our country. I believe it is always good to hear it from an "outsider", someone not necessarily as much attached to it, either emotionally or in any other way.
And as such I would like to thank Robert and Semakaleng again for their incredible hospitality and for their work and effort in making the event such a huge success and such a memorable experience for me. It will never be forgotten. But, it would be unfair to leave out those who were instrumental in executing the evening successfully, including Leah, Semakaleng's family and all the others involved in the logistics, but also every single person who attended and contributed to the richness, depth and diversity of the evening! Thank you very much everyone!
We, the younger ones (no offense!) decided to "hit the town," if it could even be called that! Note: Ames is a college town (what we would call a university town... *cough*), we were there in Summer, with the result that, by 10:00 that evening the town was, for all intents and purposes, dead! Add to that little fact the matter of a legal drinking age that does not agree with me (or my age, or even our own laws in South Africa) and you can imagine the outcome!
No, it was actually great to get out and see the town (albeit in summer) at night and have a feel for it! Okay, I had tea (and I had to smoke 50ft away from anything civilised or moving) and we were in a Coffee Bar type of thing, but the company is what mattered most, right? hehe
Wait! I must first illustrate how insulted I was by the means of serving tea! I ordered Earl Gray, but it arrived in a mug about 12in tall! By my standards that is a jug, and serving tea in a jug (without milk and sugar) for anybody that can trace his / her origins to the British, is sacrillege! But, I survived to tell the tale! And corrected their very bad tea etiquette when we went there again a few days later (when I actually had describe a proper tea cup and how to serve it!)
Anyway, the evening ended (or the morning began, depending on how you look at it) with Basil and Nathan dropping off Martha and I at hour respective homes at about 1:00 after we enjoyed an hour or two in (what I would call) a smoke house type thing! The whole evening (bar the strict and comprehensive anti-alcohol and anti-smoking legislation, the lack of tea etiquette and our experience with super dogs!) was very much reminiscent of home and was a great experience! An opportunity to casually engage with people over dinner, and then go out with our peers and just relax! It was, as mentioned, one of the highlights of the Iowa visit!
Tuesday evening we came home at about 21:00 as well, Steven and I (as student representatives) had a leadership training evening at the University, followed by soup and 'networking'. And last nigh we had the bi-weekly family dinner, which was at Steven's grandmother's house (as it alternates between our house, Steven's brother's house or his grandmother's house). It is usually a fun evening in which we just catch up with the going-ons in the family and so forth.
Tomorrow evening, thank God, will be the first evening we're home! But tomorrow is also a busy day for me, as I am on campus from 8:30 - 16:30! On a Friday, yes! I have no life! haha
I last ended with a reflection of Wednesday, 9 July but failed to discuss the magnificent dinner we had at Drs Semakaleng and Robert Mazur's house, so let me get straight to that.
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I think the evening at the Mazur's house as part of the Africa Forum Dinner was one of the highlights of the week and something I was looking forward to. As I was constantly at pains to explain to the Americans I came across, South Africans are very social and outgoing people (at least within a select group, if that makes sense). So socialising, or what we call kuiering (there's no English word fit to describe all its majesty! Sorry! hehe), forms a big part of our social interaction, and even, daily lives. It was therefore something to look forward to, the opportunity to meet a few American South Africans!
But before I get into that, I must post a photo of Shadow - one of our cats at the Symons's Residence. He'll never forgive me if I don't...
I really loved Shadow! <3>
Well, first of all, I was very happy to further meet fellow South Africans (after having met Dr Sipho Ndlela earlier that day) and I think it was a very heartwarming experience to be welcomed into the house of someone that can relate much better to your own culture and the context, the milieu, in which you grew up and continue to live. Of course I can imagine that we grew up in very different times, and had to face very different political realities, but over-all we all know what we talk about when we say words such as braai, creme soda, and of course, biltong.
As one can expect, the food was amazing! the company was really good (as Alastair remarked, he'd been convinced that everyone in Ames walks around carrying a PhD in their pocket!) and the atmosphere and ambience was not only friendly, but strangely and amazingly familiar. So much so that when the evening was over, we had "bonded" so much that I (and my fellow youth ambassadors) couldn't resist, couldn't help ourselves, and had to give Drs Leah and Semakaleng hugs! Big, real, true South African (as Joey calls them, I think) bear hugs! We were with family, and it felt good!
Dr Robert Mazur taking photos of the crowd.
I was surprised, however, by how quickly dinner (in my opinion) was served! It was kind of awkward, for me initially, to walk in and wait a few minutes and have dinner served! It was very unlike what or how we do it in South Africa - yet again, in my experience and in the social sphere I operate in. Usually we'll have a very long time to socialise and drink, chatting and waiting even hours for dinner to be ready. I must admit, and I have observed, that alcohol is not that much of a regular in American dining and socialising... as I was constantly remarking, alcohol in South Africa is quite readily available and almost always present at any event where people are getting together. We'll get to the legal drinking age in a minute!
Mandisa, Kauther, Dr Ndlela's friend and Phumlani's back-head!
Mandisa and Dr Semakaleng Lebepe-Mazur
Dr Barbara Woods, one of my favourite people at the event, and great company! Having shared her insights in American social life, social organisation and politics! And also a "view from the South."
I was absolutely drawn into the discussion with Dr Woods, besides looking rather upset here! I'm not preparing a rebuttal, really!
Dinner then, as I am sure you can imagine (and as those who were there will tell you, I hope) was amazing and it was really an experience to share in the house and home of fellow South Africans. Better yet, however, was the interaction among people who know Africa, who share a passion for and tie to the continent and it was an experience in which I gained a lot of insight and information.
I think the highlight of it all (besides Semakaleng's good food that was so very un-American, and thank goodness for that!), was the opportunity each and everyone of us had to share our experiences with "the other side." We spoke about our experience in and feelings toward the United States, and the non-Africans did the same about our continent, and where applicable, our country. I believe it is always good to hear it from an "outsider", someone not necessarily as much attached to it, either emotionally or in any other way.
And as such I would like to thank Robert and Semakaleng again for their incredible hospitality and for their work and effort in making the event such a huge success and such a memorable experience for me. It will never be forgotten. But, it would be unfair to leave out those who were instrumental in executing the evening successfully, including Leah, Semakaleng's family and all the others involved in the logistics, but also every single person who attended and contributed to the richness, depth and diversity of the evening! Thank you very much everyone!
We, the younger ones (no offense!) decided to "hit the town," if it could even be called that! Note: Ames is a college town (what we would call a university town... *cough*), we were there in Summer, with the result that, by 10:00 that evening the town was, for all intents and purposes, dead! Add to that little fact the matter of a legal drinking age that does not agree with me (or my age, or even our own laws in South Africa) and you can imagine the outcome!
No, it was actually great to get out and see the town (albeit in summer) at night and have a feel for it! Okay, I had tea (and I had to smoke 50ft away from anything civilised or moving) and we were in a Coffee Bar type of thing, but the company is what mattered most, right? hehe
Wait! I must first illustrate how insulted I was by the means of serving tea! I ordered Earl Gray, but it arrived in a mug about 12in tall! By my standards that is a jug, and serving tea in a jug (without milk and sugar) for anybody that can trace his / her origins to the British, is sacrillege! But, I survived to tell the tale! And corrected their very bad tea etiquette when we went there again a few days later (when I actually had describe a proper tea cup and how to serve it!)
Anyway, the evening ended (or the morning began, depending on how you look at it) with Basil and Nathan dropping off Martha and I at hour respective homes at about 1:00 after we enjoyed an hour or two in (what I would call) a smoke house type thing! The whole evening (bar the strict and comprehensive anti-alcohol and anti-smoking legislation, the lack of tea etiquette and our experience with super dogs!) was very much reminiscent of home and was a great experience! An opportunity to casually engage with people over dinner, and then go out with our peers and just relax! It was, as mentioned, one of the highlights of the Iowa visit!
Oh the irony! In front of the entrance to the Obama Campaign Offices (now the Story County Democratic Party Campaign Office). Seems like Iowans are struggling just as much in adapting to the new legislation!
For those of you who would like to know, and do care, I haven't smoked since we left Atlanta, in keeping with my promise and statement that I do not smoke at home.







































